I wouldn’t necessarily be worried. Sexuality is something that is with us our whole lives, so it’s okay to discover new things. The fact that you liked kissing a girl may or may not say anything about your sexual orientation, depending on what it means to you personally. So just take some time to think about what certain romantic/sexual activities mean to you, what makes you attracted to a person and how you determine whether or not someone is relationship material. However, I would keep your boyfriend in mind. If you’re interested in further exploring activities with other girls, which is totally fine, but if your boyfriend wants an exclusive relationship you may want to consider talking to him about it.

Yeah, that’s totally normal! It’s a good thing you’re over him, because you’d probably feel a lot worse. If you’ve emotionally invested yourself in someone for a long time, it’s understandable to be a bit peeved if someone goes after him. I’d probably feel the same way. Just try to cool off and maybe avoid them when they’re together to keep away those feelings. If you’re going to your prom, have fun with your friends! :)

Well, whatever happened between the two of you was 3 years ago, and people can change a LOT in just 3 years. I’m sure that both of you have matured quite a bit since then. At this point, you’re losing sleep and it’s only going to keep bugging you. If I were you I might casually say, “I had a dream about the two of us from a few years ago when…….” and then say, “weird, huh?” and laugh or something along those lines to keep it lighthearted. I think it would be worth talking to him and just asking what happened/why it didn’t work out. I mean you guys are best friends, you should at least have some closure. And who knows, maybe his feelings have changed. You’ll never know if you don’t ask.

From what I’ve seen, on/off relationships usually don’t improve. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who actually loves and wants to be with you, don’t you think? If this guy was rude enough to break things off because he was “sick of the relationship”, he’s too immature to be in the type of relationship that you want. Even though he says he wants to be friends, by staying in contact with him, hanging out with him and letting him call you, you are enabling him to disrespect you and treat you badly. You opened this message by saying that you feel lost and stupid. Well, I think that if you leave this guy and break things off for good that you will feel a lot smarter and back in control of your life. Then you can make room for people who will respect you and who will value your relationship with them:)

That’s totally common for your first relationship. I’ve been there myself, lol and this just brought back a ton of memories. So, remembering what that feels like, I’ll just give you some tips.

First of all, relax. Breathe. First relationships are very exciting, but nervousness and worry can put a damper on the excitement.

Be yourself. I know this sounds cliche, but I really mean it. This guy is already in a relationship with you, so you don’t have to worry so much about whether or not they like you. Just relax when you are together and enjoy the time you spend with him. Cherish it :) 

 As the relationship continues, make sure that the two of you are able to communicate. My number one rule for relationships is that communication is key. And in order to make a romantic relationship long lasting, you should be able to be comfortable with this person and to feel like they are also your friend.

I don’t really want to give definite advice, because every relationship is different. If you have more specific questions, I would probably be able to offer more advice if you feel you need it. You have said that everything is going great to far, so I would keep doing what you are doing :)

Do not lead on your current boyfriend. End things with him asap because it’s not fair to him. How would you feel if someone did that do you? It’s normal to still have feelings for someone after a breakup, but he’s your ex for a reason. Take some time being single and letting go.

No one likes to be alone, it’s in our nature to have that desire to socialize and form relationships. That’s what makes us human. It’s understandable to feel sad when people are with their boyfriends/girlfriends, and it can be particularly annoying when there’s a lot of PDA going on! I personally believe in the importance of timing. Maybe you want a boyfriend right now, but the timing in your life is just wrong at the moment. Maybe you need to focus on yourself first, who you want to be, school, etc. I know that might not sound super fun but it is an important process, and you will learn so much from it. If you want an example, I have known a certain boy since I was 9, and for so many years I was basically desperate to find a boyfriend. Now we have been together for 4 years, and to think that he had been under my nose that whole time! If you would have told me when I was nine that I would fall in love with that kid, I wouldn’t have believed you. The point I’m trying to make is that you really don’t know when it’s going to happen, but that’s what makes it kind of fun. Also keep in mind that not all relationships last forever, and while some are short lived, you still learn something from them. Eventually everyone will find that special person, just at different times. Be patient, and it will be worth it.