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Anonymous asked:
So before I start I would just like to clarify that I am a girl, and I do have a bf. But the other night I was at a friends house with a bunch of other people (my bf wasn't there) and we all decided to play truth or dare. When my turn came, I chose dare and was dared to seriously kiss another girl. Not being one to back down from a challenge, I did and I seriously enjoyed it. Now I'm really confused and mixed up and I don't know what to do or think. Any advice?
I wouldn’t necessarily be worried. Sexuality is something that is with us our whole lives, so it’s okay to discover new things. The fact that you liked kissing a girl may or may not say anything about your sexual orientation, depending on what it means to you personally. So just take some time to think about what certain romantic/sexual activities mean to you, what makes you attracted to a person and how you determine whether or not someone is relationship material. However, I would keep your boyfriend in mind. If you’re interested in further exploring activities with other girls, which is totally fine, but if your boyfriend wants an exclusive relationship you may want to consider talking to him about it.
Anonymous asked:
So there's this girl. :) I like her, she likes me. and everyone says we should date and all I gotta do is ask her the question..but there's one thing I'm worried about. I'm kinda an awkward person, but not with a group if it's just me and one person, I don't know what to talk about and it gets quiet. I'm worried this'll happen to me and her. It's gonna be my first relationship and I want it to be special and long lasting. I''m worried she'll get bored with me or lose interest and break up.
ok, first thing….SHE LIKES YOU! :) She likes YOU, so really, what do you have to worry about? Just talk with her about things that you can talk about with anyone. Ask her questions about herself and what she likes, that will get things going. Maybe if you’re nervous at first, start hanging out with her with a group of people so it can be easier to get to know eachother, but make sure that you DON’T ignore her! Btw, there’s nothing wrong with being the life of the party with a group, and being a bit quieter when you’re alone with someone. I hate using a cliche’ here, but seriously, just be yourself, so that she can get to know YOU, and continue liking YOU. You’ll be fine :) good luck!
