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Anonymous asked:
So before I start I would just like to clarify that I am a girl, and I do have a bf. But the other night I was at a friends house with a bunch of other people (my bf wasn't there) and we all decided to play truth or dare. When my turn came, I chose dare and was dared to seriously kiss another girl. Not being one to back down from a challenge, I did and I seriously enjoyed it. Now I'm really confused and mixed up and I don't know what to do or think. Any advice?
I wouldn’t necessarily be worried. Sexuality is something that is with us our whole lives, so it’s okay to discover new things. The fact that you liked kissing a girl may or may not say anything about your sexual orientation, depending on what it means to you personally. So just take some time to think about what certain romantic/sexual activities mean to you, what makes you attracted to a person and how you determine whether or not someone is relationship material. However, I would keep your boyfriend in mind. If you’re interested in further exploring activities with other girls, which is totally fine, but if your boyfriend wants an exclusive relationship you may want to consider talking to him about it.
Anonymous asked:
In the last few weeks, all of a sudden I keep dreaming about having these intense intimate kisses with my best guy friend. He was also the first and only person I ever kissed, 3 years ago, and it... didnt work out... but hes still my best friend. But now I dont even want to sleep because I wake up twice as heartbroken and confused... everyday. And I cant even talk to him about it, whatever happened 3 years ago, whatever emotions we HAD are now just the elephant in the room.
Well, whatever happened between the two of you was 3 years ago, and people can change a LOT in just 3 years. I’m sure that both of you have matured quite a bit since then. At this point, you’re losing sleep and it’s only going to keep bugging you. If I were you I might casually say, “I had a dream about the two of us from a few years ago when…….” and then say, “weird, huh?” and laugh or something along those lines to keep it lighthearted. I think it would be worth talking to him and just asking what happened/why it didn’t work out. I mean you guys are best friends, you should at least have some closure. And who knows, maybe his feelings have changed. You’ll never know if you don’t ask.
Anonymous asked:
Hi, I'm the same guy from the "So, There's this girl..." post. :) I asked her today and now we're dating. I just wanna know like when the "stuff" begins? lol I'm new at this , like when do we start kissing and stuff..I'm not like a douche who just wants to kiss her, I just wanna know like how this whole thing works. lol
Yay! I’m glad you guys are dating :) well kissing and any physical contact really should happen when both of you are comfortable and feel right about it. Start small. When you guys are walking together, pay close attention to her body language, like how close she stands next to you. Little movements can be a big sign, like bumping your hand against hers when you’re standing/walking together, inching closer to her and loosely putting your arm over her shoulder if you’re sitting together, or touching her arm when you laugh at a funny joke. When you do things like this, see how she responds. If she tenses up or inches away, then she may not be super comfortable, or she may be nervous. But if she responds back to what you’re doing, she probably likes it :) So just start with little things like that and the more comfortable you get with eachother, the more natural everything will feel. If you have more questions about this, feel free to ask :) Good luck!
